Sometimes in life we are blessed with a truly extraordinary friendship – I have been blessed in this way with my friend called Bin. Actually she is the brains behind this blog. She is the one who puts it all together and makes it look so great. For 17 years we have been the closest of friends. We now call ourselves sisters and our families think of each other as family.
Together over 17 years we have journeyed the good: The birth of seven children (my last child and her six), miraculous healing, marriage reconciliation, wonderful New Years together, fantastic holidays and just great fun. We have also journeyed the bad: Marriage separation, mental illness, wayward teenagers, and Mark’s cancer, long term illness and death. We have laughed a ridiculous amount, cried together and prayed and sought God together. They have been 17 very blessed years!
At the beginning of this year Bin found out she was pregnant with her sixth child, and in May we found out that after five handsome sons Bin and her husband Bring (his nickname) were expecting a daughter. I remember her ringing me and telling me and Jasmine when we were parked at a shopping mall, and we just sat in the car and cried with happiness at the blessing our dear adopted family was receiving. How exciting – a little girl!
Very early on the 22 September Bring & Bin welcomed their little girl into the world. With great excitement we raced to the hospital. They named her Sadie, which means Princess – so incredibly appropriate for the youngest and only girl but also because this little girl is a daughter of the King of Kings!
For ten weeks we all enjoyed getting to know this little bundle of joy, and then in the blink of an eye it all changed. After what was supposed to be a routine doctor’s check, Bin and Bring headed to the hospital and within days they were told their precious baby was very, very sick with a serious heart condition.
Thirteen days later on the 14th of December at just about 12 weeks old, Sadie left us for her eternal home prepared for her by Jesus as he promised in the Bible in John 14:3.
Tragedy has struck my dear precious friends. I cannot take their grief and pain. Grief and pain that I am all too familiar with, but this is a baby – it seems so senseless.
But senseless it is not in our loving Heavenly Father’s eyes because Sadie had to be born to live forever. You see, Sadie has always been in God’s mind. In Jeremiah 1:5 it says
God knew all about Sadie… God knew Sadie… God had holy plans for Sadie. But none of that would have mattered if Sadie had just remained a thought. Conception brings life and the minute Sadie was conceived God’s thought was given life! Our Sadie had to be born in order to live forever with Jesus.
And it is the same for Jesus. He had to be born so that we could live forever.
Over 2,000 years ago God came in the form of a human baby to make a way for all of humanity to be able to live forever. Through Jesus’ birth, life, death and resurrection ALL of us are given a way to live forever in heaven with our holy and loving heavenly Father.
Sadie has been taken from us. She is out of our vision. But Sadie is not lost – she is home. She is now a citizen of heaven, which is where we all will be one day if we have accepted the truth of Jesus. One day we will be with her and we will understand the joy that although she was here for such a short time, she had to be born to live forever.
Death is tragic but it is only tragic for those left here grieving our loved one. But for Sadie, for Mark, for all the others who have died knowing Jesus, death was their welcome home!
Sadie had to be born to live forever!
AND JESUS HAD TO BE BORN SO THAT WE COULD ALL LIVE FOREVER.
This Christmas CELEBRATE!!!
Celebrate Jesus’s birth for the truth that it truly is – OUR WAY HOME!!!
But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ.
1 Corinthians 15:57 (NLT)
Thank you so much for these words. Your friendship with Belinda is one of the things I remember. I remember the laughs and the closeness you shared. God is so good that he makes sure we have a wonderful support network when the going gets tougher than we think we can handle. Please give my love and prayer support to Belinda and Brendan. They are such a wonderful special couple. Thank you special lady. You are trully a mouthpiece for God.
Thank you so much Sheilah, I will definitely pass on your love to them. Our God is amazing at how he makes sure we are all looked after. Bin & Brings support was part of my saving grace through my own walk. It is an honour and privilege to be there for them now. May God bless you and your gorgeous and special family this Christmas!
Thank God indeed that the victory is ours! Amen! Love ya heaps. Karen
Hey Suz, I was just reading this and was so encouraged by the fact that God had Holy plans for Sadie. I feel so overwhelmed by the loss I am feeling and Brenton and our boys are struggling with, that I forget that the plans God makes are ETERNAL. My tiny heart and brain can barely comprehend what God has planned, but as her Mumma it is part of God’s Holy plan in my life to make sure her she is not forgotten or that her death was in vain, but that God will restore our broken hearts so we can love and support others through their loss and heartache. I feel like God wrote this particular blog as a love letter to me, thank you for hearing and writing it. All my love to you my sister, Bin.👑💖😀🙏💝